Our definition of theological reflection states that our beliefs, thoughts, and feelings influence our actions and that we need to identify how they are influencing the actions. This is a positive statement about what should happen. However, there can be a discrepancy between our ideals and our behavior—when we fail to live up to what we believe, think, and feel. In reality, we have two theologies: a confessional and an operational theology. The former we ascribe to, speak about, preach about, and